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Jul 30

Anonymous said: What are the signs of emotional abuse?

tsunime:

mental-health-advice:

Abusive Expectations - Makes impossible demands, requires constant attention, and constantly criticizes.

Aggressing - Name calling, accusing, blames, threatens or gives orders, and often disguised as a judgmental “I know best” or “helping” attitude.

Constant Chaos - Deliberately starts arguments with you or others. May treat you well in front of others, but changes when you’re alone.

Rejecting - Refusing to acknowledge a person’s value, worth or presence. Communicating that he or she is useless or inferior or devaluing his or her thoughts and feelings.

Denying - Denies personal needs (especially when need is greatest) with the intent of causing hurt or as punishment. Uses silent treatment as punishment. Denies certain events happened or things that were said. Denies your perceptions, memory and sanity by disallowing any viewpoints other than their own which causes self-doubt, confusion, and loss of self-esteem.

Degrading - Any behavior that diminishes the identity, worth or dignity of the person such as: name-calling, mocking, teasing, insulting, ridiculing,

Emotional Blackmail - Uses guilt, compassion, or fear to get what he or she wants.

Terrorizing - Inducing intense fear or terror in a person, by threats or coercion.

Invalidation - Attempts to distort your perception of the world by refusing to acknowledge your personal reality. Says that your emotions and perceptions aren’t real and shouldn’t be trusted.

Isolating - Reducing or restricting freedom and normal contact with others.

Corrupting - Convincing a person to accept and engage in illegal activities.

Exploiting - Using a person for advantage or profit.

Minimizing - A less extreme form of denial that trivializes something you’ve expressed as unimportant or inconsequential.

Unpredictable Responses - Gets angry and upset in a situation that would normally not warrant a response. You walk around on eggshells to avoid any unnecessary drama over innocent comments you make. Drastic mood swings and outbursts.

Gaslighting -A form of psychological abuse involving the manipulation of situations or events that cause a person to be confused or to doubt his perceptions and memories. Gaslighting causes victims to constantly second-guess themselves and wonder if they’re losing their minds.

Love, Salem

Reblogging for myself and followers

Jul 29

zobb:

when people complain that a woman’s bra is showing

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Jul 29
sluttiest-virgin:

the-elderscrolls:

Polish doctor that refused to perform abortion named a “hero”
Dr Bogdan Chazan was visited by an expecting mother (32 weeks into pregnancy), who already had 5 miscarriages before and was worried about her health. It turned out that the fetus had hydrocephalus, undeveloped brain and was missing many bones from its skull. The Doctor refused to perform an abortion and didn’t send the woman to another hospital which could do so (according to polish law, if a doctor doesn’t want to perform an abortion, he has to choose another hospital which will agree to do so). Chazan was named a “local hero” and “true warrior of Jesus in the name of life of the unborn” by many polish politicians and catholic activists. He used conscience clause as an excuse for his actions.
The woman gave birth to the child through a C-section. She and her husband spent 10 painful days watching their deformed child die a horrible death. When she finally decided to speak out, she said:
“During these 10 days, no priest, no pro life activist or even dr Chazan came to see the child, to ask if they can help. It was really hard to look at our child. We knew what was coming, but it was still very hard to cope with”
Congratulations, pro-lifers - another “life” saved, another “happy” child and “happy” family. 

FUCK

sluttiest-virgin:

the-elderscrolls:

Polish doctor that refused to perform abortion named a “hero”

Dr Bogdan Chazan was visited by an expecting mother (32 weeks into pregnancy), who already had 5 miscarriages before and was worried about her health. It turned out that the fetus had hydrocephalus, undeveloped brain and was missing many bones from its skull. The Doctor refused to perform an abortion and didn’t send the woman to another hospital which could do so (according to polish law, if a doctor doesn’t want to perform an abortion, he has to choose another hospital which will agree to do so). Chazan was named a “local hero” and “true warrior of Jesus in the name of life of the unborn” by many polish politicians and catholic activists. He used conscience clause as an excuse for his actions.

The woman gave birth to the child through a C-section. She and her husband spent 10 painful days watching their deformed child die a horrible death. When she finally decided to speak out, she said:

During these 10 days, no priest, no pro life activist or even dr Chazan came to see the child, to ask if they can help. It was really hard to look at our child. We knew what was coming, but it was still very hard to cope with

Congratulations, pro-lifers - another “life” saved, another “happy” child and “happy” family. 

FUCK

Jul 28
Jul 28

bloochikin:

frakfraco:

kozispoon:

fuckyeahgargoyles:

aesopsrobots:

Ryan Lang.

A more complete set.

Gosh they all look so radical @-@

Amazing.

Omfg these are amazerific

Jul 27

vinegod:

Guys always back off when girls give them the “look” by SelfieC

Jul 27
stacksbreadup:

This deadass the funniest tweet ever.

stacksbreadup:

This deadass the funniest tweet ever.

Jul 27

Giveaway over for tonight!

Once again the giveaway was a huge success! Thanks to everyone that participated and I hope you all enjoy your new shiny pokemon! I’ll continue breeding different ones and will probably do another giveaway soon! Keep an eye out~ 

This giveaway was pretty popular when I posted it a few days ago, so we’re gonna give it another go!

I’m giving away random shiny pokemon on my Y version that I’ve bred and/or caught if you want one send me an ask~ 

If you’re looking for something specific I have a list of pokemon that I need and are willing to get specific shinys for special trades.

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Jul 27
Jul 24
zodiacsociety:


KAMA SUTRA For Each Zodiac Sign!
How To Seduce Each Zodiac Sign
Zodiac Signs Being Drunk
If Each Zodiac Sign Was a Drug
Jul 24

Shiny giveaway closed for the night

The giveaway is closed for tonight for bedtimes, I’ll probably do another one really soon, this was lots of fun. I hope everyone likes their new pretty pokemon! To anyone that didn’t get one, stick around, I’ll do another one soon!

I’m giving away random shiny pokemon on my Y version that I’ve bred and/or caught if you want one send me an ask~ 

If you’re looking for something specific I have a list of pokemon that I need and are willing to get specific shinys for special trades.

Jul 24

quote Raising a child is like taking care of someone who’s on way too many shrooms, while you yourself are on a moderate amount of shrooms. I am not confident in my decisions, but I know you should not be eating a mousepad.

Ron Funches (via lazybookreviews)

This seems so accurate from everything I’ve seen.

(via samsamtastic)

Jul 24
ehubbman:

Are you greeting dogs wrong? Chances are: very likely. 
A poster I made a few years back with tips on how to greet a dog. 

ehubbman:

Are you greeting dogs wrong? Chances are: very likely. 

A poster I made a few years back with tips on how to greet a dog. 

Jul 21
We adopted a kitty yesterday, isn’t he precious?  He had a bumpy start with one of our dogs but he seems to not be too shaken by it it all. His name is Dexter~

We adopted a kitty yesterday, isn’t he precious? He had a bumpy start with one of our dogs but he seems to not be too shaken by it it all. His name is Dexter~

Jul 21
postalofficepunk:

lezly-odair:

How I feel about religion. God should be presented as what he is, love and kindness. Stop using his name to justify your racism, homophobia and sexism

I’m not religious, but this comic is flipping adorable.

postalofficepunk:

lezly-odair:

How I feel about religion. God should be presented as what he is, love and kindness. Stop using his name to justify your racism, homophobia and sexism

I’m not religious, but this comic is flipping adorable.